Karwa Chauth
Karwa Chauth
is a fast undertaken by married Hindu women who offer
prayers seeking the welfare, prosperity, well-being, and
longevity of their husbands. It is said to have an
extraordinary observance rate among married Hindu women.
Following a bath early in the morning, well before dawn, the
woman adorns new clothes and partakes of a meal of very
select grains and fruit. For the remainder of the day, the
woman is bound to abstain from food and even water, though
the more strict rules of observance are not always kept. In
the text-book version of this fast, various items including
a karwa, an earthen pot with a spout, are collected and
worship is offered to Siva and Parvati.
In principle, the fast is
not to be broken until the moon is sighted at night, and an
elderly woman in the house is supposed to narrate the story
of Karwa Chauth before the fast is terminated. It may well
be a cloudy night; the moon may not be sighted; what then?
Is the married woman to forgo her food until such time as
the moon appears, howsoever long or howsoever many days that
may be? In urban areas, as almost all children can attest,
they are sent to the roof-top to see if the moon is visible;
and if it is sighted, the news spreads quickly through the
neighborhood, and women are seen making their way to the
rooftop, where an offering of water and flowers renders the
worship complete. Gandhi has some interesting observations
on the performance of the Chaturmas fast by his mother. He
narrates in his autobiography (Part I, ch. 1) that, like the
other children, he was eager to inform his mother of the
appearance of the sun [not the moon in this case] even when
it had not been sighted, as he could not bear to see his
mother suffer from want of food; however, Putlibai, whose
devotion and discipline were not so easily shaken, insisted
that she herself had to sight the sun.
In this matter, as in many others,
an extraordinary inequity obtains in the relations between
men and women. It scarcely requires a feminist to point out
that married Hindu men are not obliged to observe a similar
fast in the interest of prolonging the prosperity,
happiness, and longevity of their wives. Indeed, in many if
not most Hindu households, the wife serves food to her
husband and her children (if any) as she might on any other
occasion, and the husband is scarcely required to forgo his
customary dietary needs and pleasures. On the other hand,
the nearly universal acquiescence of married Hindu women to
this practice can by no means be adduced, as it often is
among Hindu conservatives and alleged upholders of Hindu
tradition, as an example of the fidelity and selflessness of
Hindu women, the resilience of Hindu family values, and the
tranquility of the Hindu home. As it behooves the patriarch
to understand that a tempest might be brewing in a teapot,
so the feminist may well ask if the Karwa Chauth may only be
read as an unequivocal sign of women's submission. Relying
on old associations between nature and woman, are we not
entitled to view the Karwa Chauth as a reminder of our
ecological responsibility to the earth and equally as a
warning of our failure to abide by this responsibility?
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